For those of you who don’t know it yet, we recently started a brand new ‘sex and romance‘ section on our blog and Team MissMalini is rather kicked about it. So lately, we have been having a LOT of conversations about relationships, love and lovemaking. And during one such conversation, it struck me that we talk so much about our crushes, dates and intimacy in general. But we seldom discuss the problems that two people who’ve been together for too long might face. So I quizzed some of my married friends and the ones who’ve been in a serious relationship for years about it. Here’s what they said:
‘The magic has faded off.’ ‘The spark is gone.’ ‘We are like good friends now. But there’s no attraction anymore.’
OMG. Are you kidding me? If this is what togetherness translates into, then I am glad I am single.
But thankfully, I also know a few couples who make me believe in ‘happily ever after’. So I got them to reveal the secret behind their crackling chemistry. So the lovebirds who don’t get the *feels* anymore but want to rekindle the magic and revive the spark in their relationship, here are 5 tried and tested tips: Time to reawaken your romantic side, guys!
Trust me, that’s going to be super fun and romantic!
That will give you a lot of aww moments. And the jaadu ki jhappi always works like a charm.
Go to a picturesque destination for a romantic getaway. Talk a lot. Laugh. Take long walks. (Don’t forget the hugs and cuddles.) A break from your regular busy schedules will also give you an ample of time to… love.
Yes, like the good old times. Bring back the butterflies in your tummy. Dress impeccably. Drink wine and gorge on your favourite delicacies together. Make sure that there’s good music keeping you two some company.
Touch is one of the MOST important aspects of a relationship. And this wonderful commercial of Parachute Body Lotion featuring the talented duo, Parambrata (of Kahaani fame) and Nimrit Kaur (from Lunch Box) gives out the message so beautifully. Check it out and revive the spark in your bond like the couple in this video.
Touch, feel, caress, discover and #BringBackTheTouch.
REPEAT everything dished out above and continue to be drunk in love all the time.