8 Reasons Why You Need To Ditch A Date Who Flakes

Karishma Govil , 14 Jul 2018
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Bored Couple (Image Courtesy: Shutterstock)

Everyone wants to find the love of their life. A lot of us find our soulmates randomly without any efforts, while others aren’t that fortunate. Some are set up on dates by their friends, go up on dating apps or even randomly approach people at bars. However, when you meet these people, knowing if they’re the one takes some time. We need to have several conversations with a person to understand if you vibe with them or not. But a lot of times, after a date, a person behaves flaky. They message a lot sometimes and seem very eager to meet you, and other times ignore you and avoid meeting you too. Here’s why you need to end it with them before you enter a toxic relationship.

1. They Keep You Hanging

You don’t know whether to stay or leave as they seem so eager sometimes and avoid you others. You’re literally hanging by a thread.

2. They Confuse You

They give you all these mixed signals that could drive anyone crazy. First, they tell you they like you. Then they tell you they’re not looking for a relationship, and sometimes, they just ghost on you.

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Couple Fighting (Image Courtesy: Shutterstock)

3. They Won’t Commit

They’ll lead you on at first, but later they’ll just slyly slide in the fact that they’re not looking for anything “serious”.

4. They Won’t Break It Off Either

They won’t date you but then won’t leave either. They have you hanging on like a yo-yo! The minute you think they’ve left, they’ll come back with a random text and just when you believe they’re invested in you, they disappear again.

5. You Feel Pushy

They’ll have you believe that you’re the one pushing them to meet you all the time. Even though you’re only curious about this confusing relationship. They’re indecisive and that’s not really your fault.

Couple Fighting (Image Courtesy: Shutterstock)
Couple Fighting (Image Courtesy: Shutterstock)

6. It Kills Your Self-Esteem

Because they don’t give you enough time and don’t really express themselves, you feel undervalued, lonely and question if something is wrong with you. On the contrary, it’s them you should stay away from.

7. You Don’t Know Where You Stand

They’re not clear on whether they want to be with you or not. They leave you confused and make you wonder whether this is going anywhere. You don’t know where you fit in their lives.

8. You’ll Never Be Priority

If they’re unsure about you, they’ll never give you the kind of commitment a person in love with you would. Priorities show how much you mean to someone, and if they not sure about you, there’s no point of getting stuck in a limbo.

Couple Fighting (Image Courtesy: Shutterstock)
Couple Fighting (Image Courtesy: Shutterstock)

Dating someone who doesn’t seem that interested in you is risky as you don’t know how long that’ll last. You may want to reconsider going out with them in the future. You should be with someone who understands you and values you instead.

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