Sometimes we feel like we’ve found the one. But it’s not always the truth. Before we convince ourselves that we’ve found our soulmates, we need to stop and think of all the pros and cons of being with them. After all, it’s a matter of your life! So, if you’re struggling with it, here are a few things that may give you some clarity.
The biggest clue is when your family and friends don’t approve and keep telling you that something doesn’t seem right. Listen to them, they know what’s best for you.
Somehow, you’ll get signs from the universe (if you believe in that sorta thing). You’ll hear things or see something that might be alarming.
Sometimes, you don’t feel like meeting them. That’s a big sign right there. If you truly love someone, you’ll wanna meet them all day, every day! If that doesn’t happen, it’s probably not meant to be.
Being secure is extremely important. If there’s something about this person that doesn’t let you feel secure, then you might have a problem.
Every couple fights, but if your fights are extremely ugly and frequent, you may want to reconsider. Because so many ugly fights aren’t normal.
It’s important to know your partner well. Each and every side they possess. How they are under the influence of alcohol, when they’re angry, sad or upset. It’s really imperative to know each other too well before taking the plunge.
Once you list down the pros and cons of the person, it’s important to notice what that list is trying to imply. Whether the pros are more or the cons.
So, hopefully, we’ve helped you out a bit. If you’re still unsure, we suggest you talk to your loved ones and get to know what they think about all this. And if that doesn’t help, always remember to give time, time! The truth will unfold itself.
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