Where do you go for some solid dating advice? Your friends? A family member? Well, if you ask me, it’s unequivocally Carrie Bradshaw who is my guru when it comes to relationship advice! Being given the right piece of dating advice can help you figure out some of the most claggy situations in your love life, amirite?. Iconic character Carrie Bradshaw from 90’s hit TV Show, Sex And The City, (I mean, who hasn’t seen it?) often wrote about her relationships—the good and the bad. Here are 10 awesome Carrie Bradshaw’s words of wisdom that every girl, single or dating, needs to hear right now:

1. When She Reminded Us To Not Settle

Some people are settling down; some people are settling and some people refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies.

2. When She Nudged Us To Love Ourselves Unconditionally

The most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you that you love, well, that’s just fabulous.

3.When She Sheds Some Truth About Screwing Up

Life gives you lots of chances to screw up which means you have just as many chances to get it right.

4. When Her Views On Relationships Made Everyone Rethink Their Own

Take tradition and decorate it your own way. Think of it like the woman in Abu Dhabi, or like the movies in black and white, relationships come in a range of colours and options.

5.When Heartbreak Is Hard To Deal With

And finally, the most important break-up rule: No matter who broke your heart, or how long it takes to heal, you’ll never go through it without your friends.

6.When She Made A Very Sad But True Observation

When men attempt bold gestures, generally, it’s considered romantic. When women do it, it’s often considered desperate or psycho.

7. When She Gave Us A Lesson On Finding ‘The One’

Some love stories aren’t epic novels; some are short stories. But that doesn’t make them any less filled with love.

8. When She Asked You To Put Yourself, And Only You, First

You shouldn’t have to sacrifice who you are just because somebody else has a problem with it.

9. When She Literally Said Lighten Up Ladies, The Good Is On Its Way To Us

Anyone who’s single in Manhattan gets a little freaked out from time to time. But we keep trying because you have to figure. Somewhere out there is another little freak who will love us, understand us and kiss our three heads and make it all better.

10. Lastly, Some Words Of Wisdom To Live By

The past is like an anchor holding us back. Maybe, you have to let go of who you were to become who you will be.

So, which one is your favourite relationship advice? Let me know in the comments below!

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