#MMLove: Do You Know The 5 Flirting Styles? (Pick Your Favorite & Learn Them All!)

Jeffrey A. Hall , 08 Feb 2014

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WHICH ONE DO YOU WANT TO PERFECT? LEAVE A COMMENT BELOW WITH YOUR FAVOURITE FLIRTING STYLE TO WIN YOURSELF A COPY OF THE FIVE FLIRTING STYLES BY JEFFERY A. HALL!

Based on exclusive research, the five flirting styles were discovered in a sample of over 5,000 eHarmony users and confirmed in an extensive research project involving 4,500 daters worldwide!

But first take a look at how Bollywood flirts, and then maybe it’ll help you pick your favourite :)

The Physical Flirt:
Ranveer Singh and Deepika Padukone
Ranveer Singh and Deepika Padukone

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Physical flirting involves the expression of sexual interest through body language. People who scored high in this style of flirting often develop relationships quickly and have more sexual chemistry with their partners.

The Polite Flirt:
John and Priya Abraham
John and Priya Abraham

The polite style of flirting focuses on proper manners and non-sexual communication. Polite flirts are less likely to come on to a potential partner and generally do not find direct flirting flattering, but they tend to have longer, more meaningful romantic relationships.

The Playful Flirt:
Shahid Kapoor and Sonakshi Sinha
Shahid Kapoor and Sonakshi Sinha

People with Playful flirting styles often flirt with little interest in romance. They flirt to have fun and for an ego boost, often with no romantic strings attached.

The Sincere Flirt:
Preeti Desai and Abhay Deol
Preeti Desai and Abhay Deol

Sincere flirting involves creating an intense emotional connection and communicating sincere interest. Sincere flirts have meaningful romantic relationships that put emotional connection first and sexual attraction second.

The Traditional Flirt:
Soha Ali Khan and Kunal Kemmu
Soha Ali Khan and Kunal Kemmu

Traditional flirts believe men should make the first move and women should not pursue men. By taking a more passive role in dating, traditional women have trouble getting men’s attention and are less likely to be direct in expressing their intentions. Traditional men often know a potential partner for a longer time before approaching her.

Want to flirt smarter? The Five Flirting Styles has many helpful tips on spotting each of the flirting styles and successfully detecting flirting in general!

The Five Flirting Styles
The Five Flirting Styles

We’ve all been there before. Flirting with a crush but not getting noticed or missing the sign that someone was interested in us. Mis-communication is probably the most challenging part of flirting! According to my research, over 90% of people have missed an opportunity by not recognizing flirting from another person, and 90% of people have had their attempt at flirting mistaken for friendliness!

The Five Flirting Styles
The Five Flirting Styles

While there are many “how to” books on flirting that will tell you how you are wrong, I’m here to tell you that there is no right or wrong flirting style. The flirting styles approach is not one-size-fits-all. There are five distinct and unique ways of flirting and how you flirt influences the way you communicate attraction, the kind of person you attract, your relationship success, and how long a relationship you typically have.

If you are curious about your flirting style, you can find out how high or low you are on each style here!

For now pick your favorite style and win a copy of my book!

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